By Namrata Arora Last Updated:
Finding the girl or guy of your dreams, that too on the very first date itself is no cakewalk. Being patient however, can get you great results. In all probability, you will go through many bad dates to finally arrive at the perfect one. But then again, as they say, ‘every cloud has a silver lining’, you would be surprised as to what all a bad date might actually teach you. So, without losing heart or hope, be a little more positive and have a look at these awesome things a bad date might teach you!
Wouldn’t you want to be perfect on your date with the man of your dreams? Wouldn’t you love to know how to dress, what to order, what to talk about, what not to talk about like a pro? Well, you can make as many mistakes on a date you know is not going anywhere to become a pro for later.
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Now, who does not like a hilarious story? If nothing else, you will have an interesting yet funny story to tell your friends about how terrible the date was. You can laugh about their actions, and your weird conversations, and everything else; the worse the date, the better the story!
You may have had a bad break-up in the past, which made you housebound and sad. Going out on dates can actually give you a fresh new perspective of life and change you slowly for the better.
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You may like to be confined in your house after a bad break-up or just because you are shy. Good or bad, you at least get out of the house to let your hair lose, and have some fun.
All the things, that your date does that disgusts you, make you sure of what you want and definitely do not want in your Mr./Ms. Perfect. Your bad date may make you question your decision of coming out with them. Their rude behaviour, be it eating with their mouth open, talking loudly, not holding the door open for you or being nasty to the waiters, will only convince you of what not to look for.
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The most exciting thing about going on a date is definitely getting to dress up for it. What is better is that, you get you a million compliments, which is the cherry on the cake! And, not to mention the hundred selfies you get to click of yourself looking gorgeous.
Not only do you get to look good and have a good time, but you also get to visit the best restaurants, cafes and pubs. A guy would obviously want to take the girl to the best joints to impress her.
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When you finally meet your soulmate after a series of horrendous dates, you value them and appreciate them much more. You would have already met many less desirable people on all your dates before you would meet your Mr./Ms. Right.
If your parents cannot wait to get you married off at any given second, you can put a hold on their thoughts by telling them you are going on a date. You can tell them if things work out, this person might be their future son-in-law or daughter-in-law!
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Bad dates make you a more confident person. They make you realise your self-worth, and that you should not settle for anything but the best! Whenever you are on a bad date, remember what does not break you, makes you stronger.
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So, now that we have told you all about the positives of dating, you better not shy away from going out just because of the fear of it going bad. You never know what good it may bring to you at the end of the day!
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