Courtship is a fairy tale episode that happens to almost all of us, at least once in life. You seem to remember even the slightest detail of your time spent together. Those late night talks, early morning cooing, date nights and gifts, you wish this golden period never ends. But good things do not last long, do they?
There are some beautiful courtship moments that vanish soon after the marriage, whatsoever be the reasons. So, let us take a quick look at some of these moments you might have been relishing once, but miss them badly now.
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You don't literally spend time counting them together but, this daydreaming phase of courtship instills so many beautiful hopes and desires about living together.
But after the reality of marriage sets in, you realise you need time to sleep at night, forget day dreaming!
Every time there is a plan to meet up over coffee or go out for dinner, your guy will ensure he does not arrive empty-handed. You can expect small (or big) gifts, cards, flowers, and what not.
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After marriage, once they come home tired from work, you expect them to pamper you with small gifts, and they wonder why these expectations still persists?
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This is the period, where you will know of the best mobile operator with pocket-friendly talktime, night talk, message plans and what not.
After marriage, the 30-second phone call would not have a better reason than, “Ghar kab tak aaoge?”
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Whether you ask for paani puri or find that wild flower in the bush too pretty, you will get what you ask for, no matter what time of the day it is. It is such a wonderful feeling that he would do anything for you.
After marriage, you probably keep your list ready, and they make you wait till Sundays to run errands!
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During courtship, you often spend some time thinking to yourself how perfect he/she is, how will I match up?
But, after marriage as the attitude to show off your very best to your fiancé vanishes. God only knows how and when on earth that picture perfect person turns into a shabby soul roaming around the house in dirty PJs.
This courtship period is filled with sweet gestures, like pulling a chair for your lady to sit first, to tasting the spicy dish just to ensure it does no harm to them or just reading each other's favourite book.
After marriage, they realise you too have a pair of eyes to locate your seat. Where have those beautiful moments gone?
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Before marriage, you both are a puzzle to one another. You both want to know so much more about each other.
But after the marriage, the mystery gets solved somehow, and there is not much fun left.
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Rain was always synonymous with love, missing each other, and a lot of romantic chit-chats.
After the marriage, rain is an alarm to go check if there is something left outside in the open. Run!
If there are fights at all, during courtship period, it will be fun to resolve them. Fights are an add-on reason to meet up, or make long romantic calls to pull the other person in.
After the marriage, you guys somehow get the potential to drag a matter into the fight, which happened two years back.
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The in-laws during courtship find you so pretty, so capable, that you just cannot stop teasing your mother who has been nagging you all your life with “agar roti gol na hui to sasural mein tumhara kya hoga”.
Well, after marriage there is the another side of the in-laws to show you when you are in their home for good.
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If you find at least a few of the above points matching yours, then maybe it is time that you both need to rework on rejuvenating those lost moments, sparking that passion back in your relationship. Try walking a few steps, and you will find them halfway towards you.
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