14 Trivial Things Couples Secretly Obsess Over In A Relationship But Never Admit

You may love your partner to the moon and back, but you will agree with us that the ride might become a bumpy one sometimes. No matter how many tall claims you both might make saying that your trust levels know no bounds, you can at times fail. Let us face it, something as meagre as an unknown number sending a "What’s Up!" message on your partner’s cell phone may lead to World War 3! Are we right or are we right?

Apart from other trivial matters, jealousy in a relationship may cause havoc, if not dealt with maturity. Jealousy may arise due to the silliest of reasons, and lead to the most prolonged and major fights. Well, here is a list of such weird things, people in relationships obsess over, that in reality are no big deals.

#1. When their beloved partner's phone starts ringing late night

You might seem to be sleeping, like a hibernating bear. But a ring on your partner’s cell phone can wake you up with a million uncool thoughts in your mind, that to in a jiffy!

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#2. When one them decides to go hang out with friends instead of their partner!

This one reason is enough to make you think that maybe ‘he/she does not like me’, or to say ‘he/she does not want to spend time with me anymore’. Ever heard of giving some breathing space my friend? No pun intended!

#3. When they see their partner online on 'WhatsApp' as they lie next to them

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What could be so important in a chat that they are not even listening to what you have been saying, right? What if, you are glued to your phone all day? The verdict; your partner is cheating!

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#4. When either of them fails to pick other's call 

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The phone rang twice. Two ‘WHOLE’ rings that went unanswered! What are they up to huh?

#5. When they catch a stranger 'checking out' their partner

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It hardly matters to you, whether your partner did look back or not. But, for you it is obviously their fault, if somebody else ‘checked them out’… right?

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#6. When their beloved partner's best friend turns out to be of the opposite sex

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When he or she has a million friends, why does the best friend need to be someone of your gender? And you go into a mode like, ‘Am I not enough to share their thoughts and feelings’? Something sure is fishy, for you.

#7. When their partner lies to them about any hot-looking colleague around

That is just a complete rule breaker, is it not? This sure is a hell of a reason, why you expect them to walk away from that job. Errr… Did you check yourself, when was the last time your cursed for not having too many pretty faces around in your office?

#8. When one of them gives out a passing look to some pretty face

You automatically assume your partner will dream of that person the entire night, and might even compare you to them!

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#9. When they mistakenly call out their ex’s name during a conversation

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Why? Just why do they have to bring up that devil’s name in any conversation? Your verdict- They still have feelings for each other!

#10. When their partner demands some 'alone time'

And, you go like, "is my company so unbearable to them now?... Did I do something wrong?" Why? Just why?

#11. When they keep secrets from each other, like an invite to official party

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So, what if it is an official do? People always get their partners along, right? or, are they planning to take someone else?

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#12. When they partner fails to take their side

They have got to support you no matter what! What about the ‘partner in crime’ oath?

#13. When one of them mentions how 'hot' and 'pretty' an actor looked on-screen

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Why do they find someone else hot? Even if that person is completely out of their reach and can only be seen on screen. And you go, ‘Am I not hot enough?’

#14. When either is found spending more time with a particular friend

It goes without saying then, something is definitely fishy. Why else would they only want to hang out with one friend?

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Well, as funny as they might sound, most of these things might be the ones you guys have been fighting about lately. But, if you want to enjoy a beautiful relationship, then give your detective mind a break, and just have some faith.

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