Women are specialists at stressing over the tiniest of details about the most irrelevant and unimportant issues. They feel they own all the problems of the world and freak themselves out worrying unnecessarily. Well, this holds true for most women out there. Guys on the other hand, actually do not give a damn about most of those things. They do not overthink and in most cases, do not think at all!
Women feel that somehow, whatever they do has a planned consequence. They fret about silly things and fear the unknown. So, here are all those unimportant and trivial issues that horrify women about which men do not really care about.
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Seriously girls? You actually feel he has the time to see them, let alone worry that you have them. We wonder if men even know what a split end means? The only thing they might notice is probably the length of your hair, and that is about it.
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All a guy is interested in is to hold your hand. Chipped nails, nail paint colour or uneven filing of nails is something he would fail to notice, even if he was being held at gun point!
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While women think of a million reasons why he did not text or text first, the actual reason is quite simple- ‘because he would not do that without any reason’. No motive, no strategy! How hard is that to get?
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If you are with a guy, always remember 'the reason he is with you' is because he loves you and everything about you! Why would your weight matter to him? Or for that matter, even cellulite! Almost everyone has it in some form or the other. So relax!
You can wear the same dress for three consecutive parties and he would not know the difference. Don’t believe us? Give it a shot! The same is the case with your shoes/handbags/jewellery. Unless they have gifted it to you, they are completely blind to it.
Have you ever come across a man who finds it a problem? For them, it is more the merrier if you know what we mean.
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We know women have made it a universal rule for the guy to propose first, but it is time to chill now. It will not really matter to him if you ask him out first. All that matters is that you are together!
Do not even get us started on this one. You actually feel he notices open or closed skin pores! There are more important things he needs to do in his life than worry about your pore sizes. He obviously is interested in other size details though!
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Thick, thin, clean, unclean, who cares? When he looks at you, he does not scrutinise your brow line through his eyes. All that matters to him is you and only you!
Image Courtesy: Kabhi Khushi Kabhie GhamWhen he says he loves you, he just loves you; as simple as that. If he is really into you, your lineage or background is the last thing he would care about! Unless he is a gold digger. You should really look out for those.
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Whether you are fairer near the cheek area or a little tanned on the T-zone or or even have a few dark spots somewhere on the face, who cares if they are visible only with a microscope! Stop stressing out girls. What he sees is a woman of his dreams. That is it!
Do not stress over what he will think of you if you eat a good satisfying meal. Instead men like women who eat well and not like a bird! Just order what your heart (correction: stomach) desires!
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It may be the end of the world for you, but not for him. He knows you will patch up soon and as it is, girl politics is way above his abilities to judge!
Cleanliness is not really a man’s thing. You may like the house to be spick and span, and hate the sight of even a microscopic dust particle. But for him, global warming might be a bigger issue at hand!
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The day you learn to speak a foreign language backwards is the day when men will start organising their cupboards. They find things easier when it is all messed up. Why give yourself the unnecessary stress when they just do not bother?
We know you want to have a direct access line to his thoughts. But sometimes when he is silent, he just wants to remain quiet! He is not secretly planning a strategy to cheat on you with your best friend!
He loves you the way you are or else he would not have been with you. Unless you look all dressed up for a Halloween party, he won’t even make out if you are or are not wearing any makeup or not.
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Age is just a number. There is no need for you to hide or shy away from revealing your age. If he loves you, it would not matter to him if you are 20 or 29! However, if you are a minor then it could cause trouble (he could be arrested for it!). Next time, anyone asks your age, kindly avoid creating a fuss about how old or not old you look.
There is a thing called "too much information". Women are quite big on confessing about things including their exes. But that is not how guys see it. Yes, you dated someone in the past. Yes, you had your share of fun/tears/shouting matches. But there is no need to bring your ex up in front of your man.
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Believe me, obsessing over these three little words will not bring you anywhere close to a satisfying solution. Women fret about why he still has not said "I love you". And even if the guy does say it, women still fret as to why he does not say it often enough! Give your guy a break. Men do not believe in declaring their love out loud every time you talk.
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Men are not very expressive. They might not be saying much, but they mean well. They do not take unwanted stress and believe in living a simpler life. So ladies, just take a chill pill and worry a little less because quite frankly, your guy does not care! Focus instead on making your relationship more fun and happening.
