Within two to three years of marriage, most couples are expected to extend their family. While some do it under family pressure, others do it because of their love for children. A few others choose to stay away till they are ready to bring a new life into this world. Well, if you too have friends, who are taking their own sweet time to have a baby, let them just be because there is always more to what you can see. Besides, your concern and clueless remarks may come across as criticism, which they may not like at all.
So, here is a list of things that you should definitely not say to couples without kids, and show that extra respect for their decision.
Things like, “I was 28 when I had Aryan, and you are already 32 with no kids” and, “Don’t you think your biological clock is ticking and that you may have difficulties conceiving?” can prick any woman or a couple. As it is, most people do not like interference in their personal lives. It is not as if they are seeking your advice!
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Really? Good for you. But it is certainly not courteous to advise another couple to live a life you want them to. And, by the way, what does ‘start a family’ really mean? Aren't two people enough to make a 'family'?
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"When do you plan to have a baby?", "Are you even trying?", "If there is a problem, there a are a lot of good doctors who can help you out!" Well, if they need any help at all, they will ask you. So, you can keep all those questions and suggestions to yourself for now!
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Sure, couples without children do have time to do other stuff, including travel and shopping. But, that is not the only thing they keep themselves busy with! If you think you do not have time to do what you or your partner like, because of your child, then maybe you need some time management lessons.
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We will definitely advise you to not say that to your friends with no kids. Not having kids does not make them any less of a human? So, invite them to any and every party you throw. They may be a couple who are just not ready to have a kid, but maybe they would love to pamper others’ kids.
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Please do not assume that non-parents will not understand what your life is like. They might not be living your life, but that does not mean they will not understand what a huge difference having a child has made to your life!
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A lot of couples are touchy about their pets, and treat them like a part of their family. But, keeping pets is not a consolation for not having their own kid. You will infuriate them, if you ever say this to them. The best thing to do is to love their pet, and avoid talks about having a baby!
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We sincerely hope that by following our advice, you can avoid burning bridges with your friends. However, do not shy away from giving them some sound advice when they are asking for it. Like we said earlier, there is more to what you see!
