15 Lines That Can Totally Ruin An Arranged Marriage Meeting For Girls

A marriage is a solemn occasion; one that should be entered into with a clear and strong mind. However, you need to be very careful when it comes to the Indian arranged marriage set up. The questions that girls are asked in the first meeting are sometimes so funny and ridiculous that it makes her absolutely sure to reject that person there and then. This is partly because today, women are more confident and clear of the decisions they make, and get the respect and stature they deserve.

So, here are few such lines/questions that should never be said to a girl on the first arranged marriage meeting along with what goes on in her mind when she hears them.

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#1. How many affairs have you had in the past?

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Well I am sure you too would have dated in the past. And even if not, why judge each other on these lines at all? What is in the past should stay there and it is not necessary to come out with all these details in the first meeting itself!

#2. I hope you know how to cook and clean properly

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Well no offence, but if that is what you have in mind for me after getting married, I am definitely not interested. I do have a few domestic help agency numbers to help you out in that area though.

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#3. What are your thoughts on sex before marriage?

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Okay! Now that is just coming on too quickly. And it is way too personal for the first meeting!

#4. I have seen all your pictures on Facebook

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Dude! Are you stalking me on social media? So, not cool!

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#5. Do you really want to work after marriage?

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Yes I do. And even if I don’t, that is something for me to decide. No one can force me to work or not work after marriage.

#6. When I was in the U.S ..

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Going abroad or having studied there is no longer something unique as most people can now afford it. So, stop showing off right now.

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#7. Every woman’s first priority should be her home, don’t you think so too?

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Well, of course it should be an important thing. But it should be important to both the partners. Why should only the wife be responsible for making her family a priority? Isn’t it his family too?

#8. I want children as soon as possible

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I like children too, but shouldn’t the decision of when to start planning and how many to have be a joint decision? Also, I want to enjoy my life after marriage a little, and be absolutely ready mentally, emotionally and physically before I conceive.

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#9. I do not like children that much

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Well, in that case I do not like you that much!

#10. Are you sure you can handle all of this all by yourself?

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The first time we meet and you are already questioning my potential? So long, mister!

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#11. I like that place but isn’t it too expensive?

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Are you trying to test me here dude? Well, I can very easily afford to treat myself as well as you. So, stop being stingy.

#12. My Ex used to do it just like that

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Talking about your ex at this moment, clearly shows you have not gotten over her. This is a big turn-off!

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#13. We have a huge family and they all prefer gold to diamond

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Do I smell dowry demands? Police helpline number anyone?

#14. Let me just ask my mother first

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A mamma’s boy? Thanks for showing me that today itself. I owe you big!

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#15. Our pandit ji says you need to marry a tree before you marry me

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Though we all have our faith in God, making me do monkey tricks is something that will surely not convince me to marry you my friend!

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We hope you had a good laugh while reading this and also got a few pointers so as to be aware of such comments when you go through your first arranged marriage meeting. And if you have any friends who are soon to face such a meeting soon, tag them and do your part for the society!

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