Relationships are for life long and require a lot of love and patience. People always tell you about the rainbows and butterflies, but there is definitely much more to a long-term relationship than that. The honeymoon phase may last for a good four to six months, but what after that?
He is not going to be the hopeless romantic that he was, neither is she going to always dress up to make you happy. And, here is a list of some of the most impractical things that cannot be expected from a long-term relationship.
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Romance is obviously essential in any relationship. It is constantly present in the first few months of dating, but as time goes by, you might find the romance fading a bit. Do not worry! This is bound to happen. Relationships are based on bigger things than romance, and once you realise the base of the relationship, romance will feel trivial. Till then, do not expect them to always be romantic and mutter sweet nothings in your pretty little ears.
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You might already be in a relationship, but they are still getting to know you. How you react to things, is something that they are also learning. There may be times you might be upset and they would not be able to say what you want them to. Cut them some slack here. Understand even they are learning and growing with you, and they do not always have the right things to say.
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Spending a lot of time together can at times become stressful. You might get a little sick of having them around all the time. Do not feel bad about it, instead give yourself a little space and do meet some other friends. Encourage them to do the same. This will lead to a happy, healthy relationship.
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Answer a simple question, if there is a cute guy/girl going past you, would you not notice them? Of course, you will. But, that obviously does not mean you do not love your mate. Same goes for them. They may notice other men/women, but their heart is set on you.
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Your friends and family might not approve of them. But, that is alright, you can live with a few people not liking them. Do not make it a big deal. Stressing over this is pointless, so let it go.
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You and your partner are two different people. They might have supported you in your decisions, but there will come a time where they get to know you better and understand what might be or not be right for you. He/she may not support all your decisions immediately, but if you sit down and talk to them about it, things might be a little different.
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Mixing your friends and your partner is not always a good idea. In the beginning, having your Bffs and your partner in the same group may seem fun. But, as time goes by, your friends will want to talk to you about something or your partner may not want to hang out with your friends. Either way, keep them at a distance as soon as you see a dispute. These things are bound to happen.
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Yes, that does happen. You may not always be hot for each other and jump onto the bed at every chance that you get. This might happen at the beginning, but as you get comfortable, things start to change. So, keep calm and accept this as a part of an awesome relationship.
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As time goes by, the ‘I Love You’s might become less verbal, but nothing changes in their heart.
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Relationships are tough. You need to compromise and understand a completely different person. Accepting their flaws and still being with them, is what seems a tad difficult. But, if you know this is the right person, then do not hesitate and give in everything you have.
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They might want to watch a movie, but maybe you might want to take a nap. Initially you would do everything together, but as time goes by this will change. You will want to do somethings completely different than them.
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Dates will mostly include takeouts. The number of candlelight dates will reduce, but that should not affect your relationship.
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It takes time for guys to talk and open up. Sometimes he might be stressed and would not want to tell you what he is going through; same goes for most women. So, give them time and have some faith.
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There might be times where they would not be able to talk to you or come and meet you. He/She might be stuck at work or with family members. Try to understand this and let it go.
Compromise goes hand in hand with relationships. No relationship will work unless both of you are willing to compromise. Always remember if it is not worth the compromise, let them go!
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Things will constantly change in a relationship. But, by communicating and giving each other enough space, you guys can definitely make it work!
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