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There is an old saying that goes, ‘’marriages are made in heaven!" Our job is only to trust destiny when it comes to meeting our soulmate. And when that happens, it is time for the wedding bells to ring. But nowadays, people are no longer believing in this theory. Most of them, especially guys want to delay getting hitched for reasons of their own. While some reasons might be valid, most of them that we get to hear are really silly and make no sense whatsoever. So, here we get you the top 16 weird excuses guys give in order to avoid getting married.
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Well unless you are below 21 years of age, young is not the word you should be using. Also, the earlier you get married, the more energetic and full of beans you are to enjoy your married life.
You can always travel the world together, with your spouse, can’t you? Unless you are pretty damn sure that your would-be does not like to travel at all, this too is not a good enough reason!
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Or you get bored very easily! Well mind you, marriage is a rollercoaster ride of fun times, craziness, ups and downs and all sorts of emotions that will keep you pretty engaged all the time!
According to a lot of surveys conducted on marriages, arranged marriages seem to have been more successful than love marriages. Also, if you do love someone, you should just confide in your parents already!
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So why don’t you change the pattern and let them follow in your footsteps?
Marriage does not mean to get restricted. It just means you two now share a life of commitment, love, responsibilities and a promise to love each other always. A loving and caring partner will never restrict you from following your heart.
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They are not as scary as daily soaps show them to be. Try changing your perspective or you can also opt for a partner who wants to be in a nuclear family set up!
Well maturity comes with age, and if you are old enough to marry, your maturity level too is just right. The rest you will learn along the way!
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It is high time you grew up and started taking on some. Life will not always be a bed of roses and God too helps only those who help themselves, remember?
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Guys, your career will grow side by side, marriage is not a hindrance. Wouldn’t you love it if you get a supportive life partner?
And you are a loner! Once you do get married, a loving and caring partner and their company will be all that you will long for.
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Well, if your fiance/fiancee is a nice person and if you too are willing to give them their space, we are pretty sure you will get all the space you need post your wedding too!
Getting married does not mean you need to surrender all your life savings or your monthly income to your spouse. You both can decide your finances and you can continue to maintain your own account later too.
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Maybe your partner is also not very keen, maybe you slowly change your mind and maybe they too would want to wait a few years before you guys plan! So do not be so rigid. And trust us, once you have them, you will love them!
And you feel that your life will end if you do! Well, marriage is not the end but a new beginning! The start of a beautiful phase with its own share of joys and sorrows! You need to take it on to experience it.
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So unless you have some really genuine and convincing reasons for not getting married, do not waste your time relying on the excuses mentioned above as they won’t really work in your favour! And for the record, it ain’t such a bad thing after all.
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