Men have been known to be unfaithful to their wives from times as ancient as the mythologies. We obviously do not mean all men are like this, but history is proof that many of them are. There could be a lot of reasons behind this action of theirs, but whatever the reason might be, it is something that is totally unethical and unacceptable. But, often the wives do a very strange thing when they find out that their husband is having an affair. They blame only the other woman, curse her and call her all sorts of bad names, and not their own spouse who too broke the barriers of trust and commitment. Do you wonder why that is so? Well, here are some valid explanations for why wives react this way.
Your husband is the one who walked out of the marriage and committed to someone else by choice. But, to you only the other woman seems to be the reason why he is not with you today, the way he vowed to be forever. She will always be the one who stole him away from you.
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You will always catch yourself comparing to her. You might think she obviously has something that you do not that made him cheat on you.
You feel she has no morals or character because you know for a fact that you would never date a married man and break up a home, come what may!
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You will never accept that you chose a guy who did not love you enough. You leave no stone unturned to curse and blame her for doing this to you. But, it is only human to do so.
Yes, even after being cheated upon, you are as silly as that to believe in something like that. Girl, if he cheated on you with one woman, he would do it irrespective of whether it was her or anyone else.
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Being with another woman just goes on to show you that he has rejected you. He chose to be with someone else even after being married to you. This makes you want to push her off a cliff! We understand.
That is the jist of it all. She broke your beautiful family, and you would love to believe your innocent husband had nothing to do with it. No! A reality check is what you need, girl! Time to wake up and think straight!
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You wish something bad to happen to her for your life to come back to normal. Because you still believe that if she goes away, your husband would come back to you and never stray again. We wish that could be possible, but life is not the fairytale we hope for it to be.
Because you love him and maybe want him back even after this. You know he would have had some reasons and the love you have for him will eventually make you forgive him. She however, still remains that woman who took him away from you and broke your family.
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And because you love him that much, you are sure that she forced him into this relationship. How could he cheat on you otherwise?
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Well, we know it is easier said than done to forget or forgive your husband after such a betrayal. But, what you need to realise is that it takes two to tango. It is true she is at fault, but he is the one who broke his commitment to you. So as much as you may want the other woman to be the sole culprit, you husband is as guilty and responsible for it, may be more than she is!
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