Yes, having a crush is exciting; the butterflies in your stomach, waiting for the night to get over, and dressing up in the morning to be able to go to college/ work and see your crush, leaving them small signs and signals, talking about your crush to your friends and basically, having a smile on your face all day long because thinking of that person makes you ‘oh so happy'! But, is it a two-way affair? Does your crush seem to have feelings for you too? Or, are you just chasing someone’s heart that does not beat for you at all?
Well, if your answer is uncertain or a clear yes, you need to stop the chase and here are reasons why!
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Do you really feel like being with someone who does not value you? Such a partner will always take you for granted, and keep showing you at various instances that you were the one who wanted this relationship while he/she was not that interested anyways!
When you are young and full of beans, everything in the world seems amazing and attractive to you. Maybe the crush is a mere infatuation that will soon fade away. And as they say, “there are plenty of fish in the sea”. Why make the effort of chasing one when millions will come chasing after you anyway!
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When you get obsessed with a person, so much so that chasing him or her and being successful in winning them becomes your only aim in life, you tend to ignore what is really important, and what actually makes your life worthwhile. You forget birthdays and special occasions in the family, you do not hang out with your friends that often, and you lag behind in your workplace too. Is it really worth it?
You are young, talented and ambitious with many dreams and goals that need to be won over and fulfilled. Why waste your time chasing a crush who might not even like you back when chasing your dream can lead you to achieving it sooner? You just have one life, you have got to make the best and most of it!
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When two people are meant to be, however far away or different they might be, destiny has a plan to bring them together and bond them till eternity. You need to have a little faith. Compelling someone to like you or forcing them to be in a relationship with you; come on, who are you fooling? Them or yourself? Haven’t you learned this from all the Karan Johar and SRK movies already?
Ego should never come in the way of true love, but when you feel it is true love while actually it is just a one-sided story, you need to think of your self-respect too. Never allow anyone to judge you or take you for granted. You are an amazing person and your true love, your soulmate will never let you go through all that chasing. Know your worth, and for others to respect you, respect yourself first!
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Because, all you do the entire day is think about ways to win your crush over or go stalk your crush wherever possible. That becomes like your crazy life aim, and you start getting crazier by the minute. Thus, save yourself from losing it while you still can!
Like we said before, have some faith in destiny. Good things often come to you without you having to chase them. And, if you have to get after someone and convince them to be with you, you would rather not be with them! Always believe that you are special, and only someone special deserves to be your soulmate.
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All the minor and major things, spending time with loved ones, concentrating on yourself, and doing things that you can but you do not because you are too busy planning and chasing! You are just wasting your precious time, and the wonderful times of your life!
Because you do not get what you want and when you want- 'your crush' to be more precise, you always curse God for being mean and unfair to you for not giving you your love. While the fact remains that God is actually doing you a big favour!
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Only such a person will value and respect you without ever taking you for granted. You will be made to feel wanted and special, and yours will be a relationship which will be envied by all! Your partner will always be loyal and committed towards you and no tide, however strong it might be, will ever flood your paradise of love!
You knew it from the beginning that what you are putting yourself through is nothing, but a wild goose chase! But still, when you fail at getting your crush’s attention and commitment, you are devastated and waste your time and energy sobbing over it. Trust us, you are better than that, and have better and more meaningful things to do in life!
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So, the next time you fall for someone who clearly does not share the same feelings for you, have a little confidence in yourself that you will get someone who you really deserve, and chasing after someone who does not deserve you is a mere waste of your valuable time! And remember, patience gets you the best things in life!
