Arranged marriage is an age-old concept that has been going on since times unknown. The two individuals who meet through an arranged setup, have many doubts, anxieties, and a lot more nerve-wracking feelings in relation to each other that are hard to understand. So, how should one behave? Should one get too pally, act shy, go out all the way or just be themselves?
Well, if you too are one of those going through all these emotions, then here we come to your rescue yet again. Take a look at the major temptations you need to resist before your partner, if your marriage is an arranged one.
Hang on there buddy! Do not give out all details about your life so early. Even though you two are expected to spend the rest of your lives together, putting a brake on letting out each and every personal detail too quickly is highly important.
Wait to tell them all about the kind of relation your parents have with each other, the one you share with your siblings, or anyone else in the family. Whether good or bad, these are the things that are quite personal, and it is better to keep them within the family for as long as possible.
Do not be in a hurry to get too close or physical with your partner. Just give each other some more time. Everything that is meant to happen should be allowed to take place as per the plan. Rushing in or forcing yourself to do something is not really the ideal thing to do here.
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It is really not recommended to broadcast all your relationship details on social media platform. If things do not turn out the way you imagined and the wedding gets called off, it will be really embarrassing and even tougher for you to get over with the things.
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So, better be aware of these 7 Social Media Don’ts We Wish All Soon-To-Be Married Couples Would Follow
We know you have started seeing your future with your partner. But, blindly trusting a person whom you hardly know does not seem the right way to take things further. Give yourself time to develop that bond of trust.
You never know how your partner may react. You are new to each other, but the people you will tell them about have been with them their entire life. Besides, you might even have been wrong in judging them. So, just hold on to your feelings, and discuss about the new members of your family with your partner only after you have known them pretty well.
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And while doing so, forgetting to show even the basic manners can cost you your relationship. Things like being too loud, sitting in a certain way, talking in a certain tone, etc., can leave a bad impression on your partner.
Whoa! Haven’t you two just met? Well, better act a bit more mature and keep a safe distance.
And, if you are still not convinced, then check these 5 Reasons Why Being Selfish Is Good For Your Marriage, and you will understand what we are talking about!
It is natural for anyone to develop certain expectations from the person whom they see as their life partner. But, things get difficult when these expectations get a bit too much, especially when it is an arranged marriage. So, keep in mind that you do not irk your partner with questions like ‘Why didn’t you take my call?’, ‘Why didn’t you do as I suggested?’, ‘Why did you refuse to go out on dinner with me?’, etc.
A lot of you might have been in a relationship in the past. But that is what it is right now, the PAST. It is over and done with. Why would you want to talk about it? But, for some reason if you do, then do so only when you are sure that the person will still trust as well as love you.
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We hope we were able to guide you well. These pointers will help you in making a good impression on your would-be, and take your relationship towards better things. And, if you know of someone who has been introduced to their future spouse through an arranged set up, tag them to let them be aware of these helpful tips too!
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