A wedding is always a huge, happy and colourful affair. It is an event in which, the entire family gets to be together after ages, and have loads and loads of fun. Friends re-unite to make it a memorable affair, leaving aside the inevitable wedding tensions and dramas that happen at each one of them. But many a times, some people who are not even vaguely related to the couple, let alone close, very conveniently join in the celebrations, eat, drink, dance and flirt in the wedding. And, they simply vanish as soon as the festivities end. To be more precise, wedding crashers are what they are known as! So, how do you spot one in a crowd of hundreds gathered at a wedding? Well, let us help you by telling you about these ways to spot a wedding crasher.
Just to avoid the hosts of the party at the entrance, they will go inside the wedding venue only when a lot of other relatives enter there.
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The young ones in a wedding are usually busy amongst themselves, and are hardly concerned about the arrangements or the relatives. On the other hand, elders tend to keep an eye on everything so as to ensure that everything is going as per the plan. Hence, it gets more important for the wedding crashers to make the old ones confide in them. That is why; a wedding crasher will always be buttering the auntyjis and unclejis, so that they come in their good books, and no one dares to question their identity or relationship with either the bride or the groom!
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When asked who they are and how are they related to the couple, the wedding crasher will always mould a super-confusing story. What’s more? With their past experience in gate-crashing weddings, they will try to guess which side do you belong to, and will tell you that they belong to the other side. And later, they will very smartly change the topic to something very interesting.
Their stories seem too good to be true. Their aura is way too positive and their personality is simply larger-than-life. They will show the ‘bromance’ to the groom, will dance with the bride, and will try to get along with almost everyone present at the wedding. Well, since when the people you do not know started behaving like this? So, if you find one such person in your closed one’s wedding, time to check with others about his/her relation with the bride or the groom!
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Because while all the real relatives and close friends are busy doing the wedding preparations, the wedding crasher is relatively free! And hence, the only thing in their mind is to use this opportunity to woo the singles in the party with their killer charm.
Because one of the main reasons to crash into a wedding is to enjoy the sumptuous spread! And so, they will always be seen with their mouth full of the chicken tikkas, paneer fingers and what not!
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Because if they do so, some or the other relative will turn into a detective and will try to get deep down to know about their relationship status with them! And, that of course is the last thing a wedding crasher would want!
While they will never try initiating any conversations with anyone, they will never shy away from spreading their killer charm when somebody approaches them and tries to talk to them. They will tell the jokes that will make you laugh your guts out, will offer to help in any way possible, will take out contacts in the hour of need, and will do anything to attract attention only in a positive way!
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Agreed, they would do their best to avoid everyone at the wedding. But at the end of the day, these daredevils are there to eat good food, have fun, flirt with the single ones in the wedding, and have fun all night long. Hence, they will forget everything as soon as the DJ will start playing the foot-tapping numbers. And all of a sudden, you will find a super-excited and energetic person on the dance floor!
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So, the next time you see any person in your family wedding that seems to show any of the above traits, make sure you find out how he/she is related to you. And, if things still seem to be fishy, inform an elderly person in your house to handle the matter from there onwards!
