Every couple longs for a happily married life. But sometimes, one’s behaviour can sabotage the relationship. In some cases, it is the husband while the other times, it is the wife’s actions and choices, which hurt their partner unknowingly and destroy their marriage. Don’t you agree? Well, then think about the few instances where you might have said something to your husband and although he was startled for a few minutes, he did not say anything to you. Men are not too vocal about their feelings, but they do get hurt by certain remarks, which you might have passed unknowingly. Want to know what kind of things? Then read the following
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Complaining about his salary every now and then, or constantly nagging him about how his salary is insufficient to fulfil your desires, is not good for your marriage. Your husband is doing his best to make the ends meet, so at least you can motivate him and be thankful to him.
Making some bad jokes about him or putting him down in front of your friends and family members is not at all cool. It is in fact, humiliating and might harm your relationship in the long run.
Your husband trusts you, and that is why he shares his private matters with you. But, by sharing his personal matters in front of others without his approval is nothing short of betrayal.
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Everyone loves to be appreciated for their work, no matter how small or big it is. Even you love it when your husband praises you for your efforts and you feel bad when he does not. Isn’t it? So, praise him whenever you get an opportunity.
Not introducing him to your colleagues or friends while meeting the first time makes him feel unimportant. A feeling that no one likes.
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Every marriage has problems, but blaming your husband for every problem of your life is not correct. Remember, he is also facing that problem with you. So, instead of playing the blame game, try to solve the issue together.
Be it about house maintenance, family problem, office work or anything else, hearing constant complaints is draining. Believe us, it spreads negativity in the house and creates tension in the relationship.
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Disloyalty is one thing that hurts everyone in a relationship. Lies and secrets create a distance between you and your husband. It even ruins the trust factor in the relationship. So, instead of hiding things from your husband and being disloyal, try to talk to him about the matter. He will surely listen to you and help you in every way possible.
There comes a time when you sideline your husband's needs and focus on other things like your career, friends, kids or any other thing. Sometimes it is understandable, but do not make it a way of your life. It is deeply upsetting. Imagine your husband doing the same thing with you!
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Every individual makes mistakes. No one is perfect. But, if you keep reminding your husband about all the mistakes he has committed in the past, he might feel disheartened. Better move on and leave the past mistakes behind.
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Surprised to read the ways in which you might be hurting your husband, unknowingly? And men, don’t be too happy. Even you hurt your wife in the same way. So, the next time when you are about to say something to your spouse, do think about its consequences. This way, you will surely have a blissful and happy married life.
