When a woman gets married, it is obvious that her husband, the love of her life becomes her whole universe. She just can’t get enough of him and wants to spend all her time with him, irrespective of whether they have known each other since long or were tied in the bond of holy matrimony through an arranged marriage. But, there still happens to be one more person in her life that she just can’t live without. That other important person undoubtedly is her best friend or her group of best friends. They have been with her all her life, and acted as her pillars of strength when she needed them the most.
So, there are times when she wishes she can have the best of both worlds, meaning, she wishes her husband was more like her besties. And if you are one of them, you will relate to these points word by word. So read on to know more!
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Even though your husband too is close to them, but the frankness, the fun times and chilled out attitude your parents share with your best friends, you wish your husband too was that frank.
Even when you scream or shout at them, don’t speak to them just for no reason in particular or take out your anger on them because you are upset about something else, they still don’t judge you. But your husband does at times and this annoys you!
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When you just wake up and want to go shopping, for a movie or for a short holiday, with your hubby, you need to plan in advance. Not with your besties, at all!
And they take your anger outbursts; listen to all that you want to bitch about and whoever you want to bitch about. With your hubby, you need to mind who you speak about and chose your words wisely.
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However hard you may try to explain the hormone imbalance to your hubby, he just won’t get it.
Even when they need to go to work or are down with fever, if you need them even for the silliest of reasons, they are just a call away. Your husband might choose his work over you if your crisis isn’t that important.
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But he will never remember the day you met, the day he proposed, the day you got engaged; none at all!
It’s like a day in wonderland with your friends. You go to new outlets, try on so many outfits and shoes and eat at yummy joints. With your husband, they are more of rushed trips as he gets irritated soon or is mostly on his phone! Well at least most of them are.
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Even the smallest of things, like how you love having a cup of tea with waffles at new joint every Saturday morning, or how you like your eggs nicely cooked or how you want your pillows to be fluffed up, your bestie knows everything!
They can just read your mind without you having to say anything while your husband hardly can. Even when you say it out loud, he still doesn’t get it sometimes. Are we right or are we right?
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And even if you explain them why it is so important for you that he too ignores your enemies, the only thing he has to say is- why are you so immature, you need to grow up! When will he ever understand this?
And not at their laptops, televisions or their phones like you know who!
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And though a wife absolutely loves whatever her hubby does for her, it wouldn’t hurt if he could do all the above too without her having to ask. Yes, her expectations are touching the sky, but she ain’t called a woman and a wife for no reason, right?