This is a very important rule of starting an interesting chat with a girl. Many times it so happens that after a while, when the nervousness lessens, one gets too excited and begins talking a lot! This can be quite a turn-off. Instead, lend an ear to her, rather than only talking about yourself or your experiences. We would suggest, try following your heart. Take enough pauses to allow her to talk and ask questions.
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