We all have many expectations from one another in every relationship of our life. Especially, with your spouse, your expectations tend to be much more as compared to those you have with others. As long as they are real and practical, they can still be fulfilled to keep your loved one happy. But, what if you feel that the expectations are getting way too demanding to even consider, let alone fulfilling them?
If you feel bogged down by what your husband expects of you, this is the page just for you. All you ladies can relate to this article completely, as it gives you a list of the five most unrealistic expectations men have from their sweethearts.
They say they like your curves but still feel you should hit the gym on a regular basis! Now what does one make of that? Men know, that by hinting to their girl that she has put on some weight, they are digging their own grave. Guys, expecting your wives to be fit is okay. But asking them to have that perfect figure, especially after having a child, is a bit too much.
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It is obviously a good feeling when someone calls you to know how you are doing or just to let you know that they miss you. But, men want that too on their terms. They want their girl to call them, but not too much, or only when they are in the 'mood' to talk. Now, how unreal and unfair is that for your girl?
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Most men can relate to this. They obviously want their girl to love them immensely, but what they want more is for their partners to need them. To be needed, somehow gives them a sense of superiority. They want their women to be somewhat dependent on them, but only to a certain extent. They want their women to keep asking for their help, their opinions and make them feel as if your whole life revolves around them. But when it comes to household chores, maids and grocery shopping, it is suddenly the women's domain. Now, how unfair is that?
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We agree that discussing shopping or household chores, is not exactly what men want to talk about. In the same vein, talking just about sports, the latest gadgets in the market and discussing the horsepower of different vehicles, are not exactly topics most women have any interest in. Basically, men want to talk more about only what they want to talk about. They partially shut down their mind processors when their wives want to discuss something, that is or isn’t necessarily a girly topic.
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Men are generally not as expressive as women, and that is a universal fact. While this is generally associated with women, men have mood swings too. In such cases, it is difficult to judge when they are in a bad mood, when they are feeling low or when they have something they really want to discuss. They never want to talk about anything, or let the other person know what it is that is upsetting them. What they want instead is that their wife should be specific, use her sixth sense and find out on her own- ‘when what is wrong for what reason’!
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Happy relationships exist in a world where there are lesser expectations. So guys, keep your communication lines open. Expectations are a two-way street so practice what you preach and be simple and real, to live a really happy life.