It ‘takes two to Tango’, they say. And even in a relationship, if both the partners show equal commitment and dedication, only then can it be a successful one! Even though usually men are more relaxed, chilled out, and easy-going in a relationship as neither do they go into the depth of any situation and dissect it intricately, nor do they take things directly to the heart like most of us women are guilty of doing. But still, there are some serious deal breakers for them too that instantly puts them off leaving them not very keen to carry forward the relationship anymore. (READ: 16 Biggest Mistakes Women Might Be Making In Their Marriage That Cost Them Dearly).
Wondering what the deal breakers are? Well read on to know just that!
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Ever heard of the phrase, ‘blood is thicker than water’? It indeed is and however in love or committed to you, listening to you criticising and saying mean things about his parents or siblings is something he will never stand.
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It is true that women enjoy gossiping, and so do men! But, hearing you bitch about people all the time gives him too many negative vibes to handle. And, this leads to an overload of drama, which he definitely does not want to deal with.
Every guy wants his girl to WANT him. Knowing that she depends on him for a few things makes him feel important too. But, depending on him for every minute thing makes him feel like you are being too clingy and needy.
Healthy flirting, just for fun’s sake and that to once in a blue moon is alright. But, doing it with all your guy friends, or worse his pals is something which is just wrong. Would you like it if he did the same?
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And, for the silliest things can get on anyone’s nerves! Guys need space, a little room to breathe, and if you invade that by nagging all the time, they will sooner or later look for an escape from this relationship.
It is one thing to like yourself and being confident about yourself, but another to be self-obsessed. Always talking about how pretty or talented or awesome you are while completely ignoring him and his needs, talents and things like that can bug him to the core.
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You may think he will never find out, but eventually he will. And, if you are in a mature and healthy relationship why lie at all, right? If you still feel the need to do so, your relationship is going weak in its knees for sure.
You always criticise him for even little things, like folding the towel the wrong way, or brushing his teeth too early. Ever tried complimenting him, or appreciating all the good he does? While the former will only drag him further away from you, the latter will get you two closer!
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If you know you cannot make it to go see him, informing him well in advance will not hurt, right? Now you cannot really blame him if he refuses to meet you again after being stood up time and again.
While it is a fact that guys never mind initiating romance, but they do want you to do it too and not feel that you are being forced. If you have been in a relationship long enough, always expecting him to make the first move will only drive an edge between you two!
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Planning surprises, getting you gifts, remembering all your special dates and wanting them to read your mind ALL THE TIME is not really fair to them girls. Suffocating them like this, and not liking them for who they are will leave you alone and sad.
Now that is the biggest deal breaker not only for men, but for women too. If you felt the need to be with someone else while being with your guy, it shows you truly do not value and respect what you have going with him and he has every right to leave you. And, this could be a very good sign that things were not going so well between you two to begin with.
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There are times when you feel you did the right thing, and your guy is unnecessarily overreacting. But, let us be practical, you are human right? You cannot always be correct.