Most of the girls from nuclear families, wish to have a family structure, similar to what they have seen. Well, we are not asking you to change your preferences and compromise! However, no matter how rational your reasons may be, just, avoid it. Asking this question on the very first meeting might make you come across as a negative person. There are many indirect ways to know his preferences. So, just avoid it, to save yourself the tag of a home-breaker!