The entire process of finding your 'Mr. Right’ can itself be an enriching and memorable journey. So, try to keep it simple and uncomplicated. Keep certain things on hold for the first meeting. Try to know him as a person, his likes and dislikes, his goals in life, etc. This would break the ice and clear the ground for a stronger relationship in future.
Of course, questions about his financial stability and figuring out your compatibility with him are very important. But yes, saying the right thing at the right time is equally important.