Varmala tradition finds its roots in the ancient times when swayamvars were held. In a swayamvar ceremony, a prospective bride (princess of some kingdom) would choose her life partner out of a number of suitors by putting a flower garland around the chosen one's neck. So, when a bride puts the garland around the groom’s neck it is a mark of her acceptance.
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