How To Say Sorry Without Hurting Your Ego

By Khushboo Motihar Last Updated: Jan 24, 2013 | 12:56:55 IST

Little fights and arguments are a part of every relationship. But if you know that you are in the wrong, you must never hesitate to say those three magical words, “I am sorry”. Saying sorry should never be an ego issue. After all, you are going to live with that person for the rest of your life. He loves you and you will not become small in his eyes if you are a little humble. Rather he will cherish you for what you are. Same theory applies in case of females as well. If you are still unsure as to how to apologize, here are a few simple ideas which will definitely help you apologize without hurting your ego.

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Write a note

Take a piece of paper and pour down all your feelings for her. End the note with a sorry. Slip it in a place where she will definitely notice it. Probably near the laptop, in one of the important files, kitchen shelf, dining table or the cupboard. Once she reads your heartfelt note, she is sure to come running into your arms, forgetting the whole argument.

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Set up a love date

Suppose you had an argument with your husband and you feel the need to apologise to him. Try this: When he comes home, cheerfully enquire about his day, offer him tea and let him watch his favourite channel. When it is time for dinner, surprise him with all his favourite dishes. He certainly will be confused seeing your positive reaction. Switch off the TV and light up some candles and your romantic date for two is ready. Also Read: Colour your Love Life with Edible Lingerie

Throughout the conversation be nice and pleasant to him. Initially, he will be a little defensive and on the guard but then he will start warming up to you. You can talk normally; relive all the wonderful memories of the past and so on. At the end of the dinner, you won’t even have to say anything. He will understand your intention and scoop you into his arms happily.

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Take the charge: hug him

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Yes this is a new guerrilla tactic that women across the world use to melt their husbands. After a really long fight, when you have nothing to say to each other, you must take the initiative and simply hug him. You must hug him tight, when he is least expecting it. Do not leave him. Slowly, even he will pull you into his arms. Stay like that for a few minutes and you will find all the awkwardness slipping away. This hug is enough to make him realise that you want to make up.

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Have you tried any of these methods before? Do you have any other tip? Then feel free to share them in our comments column.

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