What does a woman look for in a guy that she wants to settle down with? Good looks, a good job, a nice and understanding nature, someone whom she can trust and a lot more things like these! But, how do you know if what you see is actually the truth and not deception? How can you be certain that the guy you have started liking will not cheat on you on the things you trusted him with? And let’s face it, giving your heart and soul to a guy is not an easy thing. On top of that, realising one day that he is not the same person he claimed to be can be devastating. So, here are the top 10 tests that girls secretly conduct on their potential partners before giving themselves into the relationship.
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So, it is natural human nature to look at good looking people of the opposite sex. Even if you already have a partner, looking at someone really hot does not actually mean that you have cheated. And, you too look at good looking guys as they are attractive! But, if your guy seems to show too much interest in a particular friend of yours who also happens to be gorgeous to look at, leave them two to talk alone for a while at a party. If he asks her for her number or for a dance, you know he is not a guy for keeps.
If your birthday is fast approaching, be certain not to tell him what you want. If you wish, you can leave him subtle hints, which will be difficult for him to catch. Seeing what he eventually does get you for your birthday will give you an idea as to how well he knows you and how good he is at listening to even the little things you tell him.
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Your friends are your most valuable treasures, right? So, it is really important for them to like your guy and vice versa. So, let them hang out with you when you two go on dates a couple of times. See how he talks to them, how comfortable he makes them feel and is himself in their company and what he tells you about them later on. That will tell you a lot about how they gel, and if the relation is worth fighting for.
Being nice only to you does not matter when you have to be with this guy all your life. Say a guy accidently bumps into you at an intersection, or a waiter spills your order on the table, or a guy accidently bumps into your car, but there is not even a single scratch, notice how he speaks to the other person in such situations. How well a person is with people below his status or build also tells a lot about his character.
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It is good to like different things or have different hobbies, but there must also be a few common interests between couples to keep their spark alive, right? So for this, you need to notice how willingly he agrees to try out a hobby that you like, or makes an effort to make you experience an activity that he enjoys.
If you love to enjoy life and all the various delicacies the world has to offer without always cribbing about health and weight gain, this test is paramount for you. Let him order for the two of you every time you go out for the first few dates. His choice of dishes will be a guiding light for you to decide whether there will be any further dates or not. Who wants to go out to eat a bland vegetable salad every time just because he can never remember what you want, right?
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Does he shout at you to walk carefully when you fall or does he quickly pick you up and comfort you, does he open the door for you or prefers to slam it on your face, is he supportive of your work and working hours or is he the ‘’my work is more important than yours’’ type? These are some questions you need to test him out on just by observing!
When you let him be alone with your parents and siblings, see if he makes an effort to initiate conversation and genuinely takes interest in interacting with them. And lastly, when he is upset about something they did or said, see the kind of vocabulary and tone he chooses to use for them. There is nothing more important than family and if he happens to disappoint you in this test, happily bid him farewell!
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Life can sometimes be very hectic, boring and monotonous. One of the main things you expect in your guy, thus, is to have a great sense of humour. So, put him to the test. Observe how often he makes you laugh, does he laugh alone at his boring jokes, is he just funny in company and not when you are alone, does he find you funny? Observe and evaluate!
Most people are fond of children and want to have them soon after marriage. But, there are also some who do not like kids that much, and choose not to have any. And, we are no one to judge; to each his own should be the policy when it comes to such an important life decision. However, you need to be on the same page with your guy about this. Take him along to your friend’s kid’s birthday party, or babysit your little nephews and nieces with him to see how he handles the situation! Because when you are on the same page, things can be truly wonderful.
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We are sure all you girls were already aware of few of these tests and have already tried them on your guys. But for those who have not, taking these test on him will benefit you in the long run as they will help you select the right life partner.