A home, a small family and a loving husband is a dream of every soon-to-be-bride but impressing her would-be-mother-in-law is the worst challenge she can face. As, once said by a wise man, “You can impress God but not a woman” is so true in case of impressing one’s mother-in-law. After all she too is a woman. If you think technology has changed a lot of things in our lives, think again because this fact is yet to change. Although it can be a daunting task but following these steps with the right attitude can help in building a rapport with her.
Ask what she likes
It is difficult for any woman to share her space with another woman even if she is her son’s would-be-wife. Therefore it is always best to know your mother in law’s likes and dislikes. This will help in building a rapport with her. Moreover it’s best to stay away from any family feuds which may hurt her sentiments. Your would-be–husband or his brother or sister will be your best guide who can help you with her likes and dislikes.
Gift her
Every woman loves to be pampered with gifts and your would-be-mother-in-law is no exception to this rule. She would highly appreciate if you pamper her with gifts. Ask your would-be-husband what kind of gifts she likes and accordingly make a way to her heart.
Competition is a strict no-no
It is human to be possessive about someone you love and have cared for over the years. Similar is the case with your would-be-mother-in-law. You are the love of her son, but she has given him birth. As a soon-to-be-bride respect this aspect and try to keep away from things that will hurt her ego. Try not to compete with her in areas such as cooking, cleaning, etc. Instead praise her for what she does.
Politeness is a virtue
We all like people who are polite and courteous. Every mother wants her would-be-daughter-in-law to be courteous to her as well as the others who know her. She takes pride when her would-be-daughter-in-law is being praised by others for being courteous and polite. Be polite to her and people she knows. Avoid any kind of debates that will result in to change of opinion about you.
Dress like a lady
Be a lady and dress like one. Simplicity is the best tool to impress her. As a soon-to-be-bride, ensure that your dressing sense is up to the mark. Wear clothes that are well ironed. Avoid clothes that too revealing or the ones that are so tight or transparent and make you look vulgar. Ensure that you do not use too much or very bright make up. Tie your hair neatly as it gives your face a better look.
As the saying goes ‘assumption is the mother of all screw-ups’, so is the case when you plan to impress your would-be-mother-in-law do not assume anything. Impressing your would-be-mother-in-law can be a calk walk if you follow these steps.
