While the concept of a bridesmaid is a western one, it is slowly becoming popular in Indian weddings. And though, the duties remain fairly the same, the Indian version of the bridesmaid is a little more chilled out. The whole idea of wearing matching outfits, helping the bride shop, accompanying her on her trial fitting and being by her side during the wedding functions has a supper cool charm too. But, amidst all these fun things, there still remains an annoying part. What is that you ask? Well, it is the trauma of explaining to the aunties at the wedding what the whole 'bridesmaids concept' means. And after failing at that attempt, listening to their irritating comments is no less annoying. So, here are 10 such things that can annoy any bridesmaid- courtesy Indian aunties!
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It is no rocket science aunties! Just being there for the bride 24X7. Why is that so hard to get? And, if that is really that hard then yes, I am the female sarbala!
Well, I am glad that you know that now! Urggghh!!
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How is that even related to my being a bridesmaid? Why is marriage the only thing all these aunties have on their mind?
Oh thank you for that consolation! Up until today, I never had the faith in myself that I could get married too! But, now that you have said it, I am sure my 'knight in shining armour' awaits to sweep me off my feet anytime now!
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Because that is what bridesmaids do! No, this is not a uniform!
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So, you would prefer me to come to the wedding in my sweats? I have every right of dressing up; it is my best pal’s wedding today!
And, now that you have said it, I am sure I look nothing less than a diva. Thanks for taking out your time and acknowledging this. Means the world to me…NOT!!
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And, here it comes again; my wedding- your life’s biggest aim! Leave me and my wedding alone already, aunty!
Firstly, that is what best friends do. Secondly, what if I did go out of my way to make her feel special? She is my person! And thirdly, please do not patronise me for something like this!
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If trying to be there for my friend during her entire journey up until the wedding had not taken up all my time, I would have made it a point to perform like a professional artist just for you! At least I performed, isn’t that what matters?
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Well, as hard as you try to, some people will always be more interested in your life and have an opinion on everything you do. Let us just say that they are aadat se majboor! So, just ignore what is not important as they do not intend to hurt you. Just enjoy your best buddy’s wedding to the fullest!