For Girls Only: 20 Signs That Say You Have Finally Landed Up In A Mature And Healthy Relationship

By Namrata Arora Last Updated: Jul 31, 2015 | 04:32:32 IST

Ladies, being in a committed and mature relationship in today’s age, where a lot of men usually tend to take a lot of things for granted, is nothing less than a blessing. Whether it has been a long time since you have been dating or your affair is a fairly new one, there are some signs that help you judge if it is a long-term and mature deal. So, we get you those sure shot signs to help you figure that out.

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#1. You can look like a zombie in front of him at any time of the day or night

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Whether you have just woken up, or you are without any makeup, or you are in your old torn comfortable clothes, you feel as normal in his presence as you would feel if you were alone.

#2. You do not fear the unknown

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You never constantly fear that he will leave you one day. You know for sure that he is really into you and is in this relationship for keeps!

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#3. You do not feel uncomfortable with his female friends

Your relationship is based on the foundation of trust. Hence, jealousy does not crop up between you two and you trust him immensely.

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#4. You are willing to change a few habits of yours for him

If that makes him happy, you do not mind going an extra mile.

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#5. You often finish each other’s sentences

You are so used to being with each other, and the communication level you share is so awesome that you always have the same thing to say. Or else, both of you know most of the time, what the other person is going to say next.

#6. He is an open book in front of you

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And, so are you to him. You know each other inside out!

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#7. You do not want to change a thing about him

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Because he is perfect just the way he is. Period!

#8. You can discuss your future with him without any fears or doubts

Because unlike in the case of an immature relationship, where you are not sure of a future with your guy; here, you can only imagine one if he is in it. That makes planning for it even more exciting.

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#9. You never feel the need to say anything negative about him

Why would you? Wouldn’t you rather tell him directly what you do not like?

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#10. You both always get invited to a do as a couple

Whether it is your friends or his, they always invite you together as a couple.

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#11. Your friends think he is awesome

And, always end up asking him if he has a brother just like him! That makes you feel super lucky as well.

#12. He brings a sane balance to your life

And, you realise the fact that no one else can handle your temper and mood swings the way he does.

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#13. You do not fear that he will judge you

Because just like you, he loves you for who you are and is your true support system. 

#14. When it comes to your finances, it is not his or mine; it is ours

Because when you know it is the real deal, what yours is his and vice versa. ‘Mine’ becomes ‘ours’ and money matters never become the reasons for fights between the two of you.

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#15. You fight a lot without ever fearing a breakup

Fighting is considered very normal in a relationship. Your numerous arguments never end up in huge fights. And sometimes, even if they do, it does not mean that this was the last conversation between the two of you.

#16. You do not need to be in contact with each other every minute of the day

You have a general idea about each other and your whereabouts throughout the day. But, you do not bug each other by texting or calling every now and then.

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#17. You disagree a lot but either one of you always compromises

Men and women hardly ever agree to the same thing, but the best part about your stable relationship is that to avoid dragging arguments, one of you always steps back.

#18. You visit his house and family like you are one of them

You share a great comfort level with his family even before you actually marry him. And, that is because his folks know what you are to him, and he has already made your presence in his life a priority for him.

#19. You are cool if he forgets to message or call you back

You understand that he might be busy and would definitely get back once he is free. And, even if he forgets to do so, you do net let your ego come in between the two of you and very normally call him back.

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#20. You feel blessed to have him in your life

Especially, when you look back at all your past relationships in life and realise what all you were missing out in life when he was not a part of it.

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Well, if you too nodded your head to each and every point while reading this article and have a smile on your face, then you are a lucky girl in every way! So, without further ado, share your joy and gratitude with your guy by tagging him and letting him know how blessed you feel to have him.

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