10 Things A Mother Feels When Her Son Is About To Get Married

By Namrata Arora Last Updated: Jan 24, 2017 | 17:19:23 IST

A bond shared between a mother and her son is one like no other. Since the moment she sees him for the first time, she falls in love with his tiny little hands, feet and his pure heart. It is difficult to explain in words the depth of this precious bond. And deep down inside, every mother thinks of the day when her son will someday get married and she will have to share him with another woman.

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Well, some take this in the positive way and let themselves and their sons move on while others take this in an entirely negative way and try to exercise undue right over their sons. Whichever the case might be, here are the top 10 thoughts every mommy has when her son is all set to tie the knot!

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#1. Our little boy has grown up!

Yes, it becomes difficult to believe how time has flown and this little chap who held my finger and learnt to walk is all set to start a new life, a new family.

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#2. I will now have to share my son with someone else

And, that is the scariest thought for me to imagine right now. I hope he values me even after he starts a new life and remembers the beautiful journey that we have been through, always!

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#3. I will make conscious efforts to treat my daughter-in-law as my own daughter

Not just because that will help me stay closer to my son, but most importantly because she too is leaving her family behind to come and start a new one with us.

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#4. I hope she will be respectful towards our family and us

With today’s changing times, you never know how well or not a girl might adjust with a new unfamiliar family set up. I truly hope she respects our values and us.

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#5. I hope his wife keeps the family together

I have been doing this all my life up until now and will continue to do my bit, but I hope that she is able to do the same. Our family should always be happy and together as it has been till now and I hope we continue to live like this forever.

#6. I will give them their space

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They are young and ready to start a new life. My constant interference might not allow them to form a bond that they ought to. Thus, I will always give them their space.

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#7. I will never make my son choose

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Yes, there will be arguments, there will be fights, but there will also be laughter and good times between his wife and me. But, I am the more mature one here and need to understand the fact that it will take time for us to form a bond and in between all of this, I will never ask my son to choose between the two of us.

#8. I wish they take care of us and include us in their plans sometimes

I do not expect that they should take us along each time they leave the house but at least every once in a while, they should make plans with us as well. This will also help us bond as a family.

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#9. You will always be the most important person in our lives

As life changes, so do relationships and the degree of priorities in our lives. But, however important or unimportant we might be for you, you will always be the center of our universe.

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#10. We will have cute little grandchildren to play with

Now, although it is not from the point of view of the mother, this is one thought that every mother surely has when her son is getting married. Even before the wedding actually takes place, she is already excited for her would-be grandchildren to come into this world. The thoughts of pampering the kids, dressing them up, feeding them with loads of ghee and other goodies fills their tender hearts with joy.

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So, if you to happen to know a guy who is about to get married, make sure you tag him and his mommy dearest here for both to experience a special feeling. And all the beautiful mommies out there, feel free to share anything else that you may want to add in out comments section below!

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