15 Things Every Girl Feels When Her Sibling's Wedding Is Also The First 'Ghar Ki Shaadi'

By Namrata Arora Last Updated: Jun 24, 2016 | 16:35:33 IST

A wedding in the family is the most joyous occasion that brings together the entire family under one roof. There’s food, there’s music, there’s dancing and a lot of fun planned for the entire duration of the celebrations. And, if this wedding happens to be the first ghar ki shaadi, the excitement and anticipation levels in the house are sky high. So, we get you the topmost emotions and thoughts every girl experiences during the first wedding of her house.

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#1. She becomes the wedding planner

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Because she wants everything to be perfect for her brother/sister’s wedding. She has all the contacts and plans for the décor, the theme, the cuisines and everything else for all the functions.

#2. She is always on the verge of getting emotional

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Knowing that she will now see less of her sibling and will have to share him/her with their spouse is something that makes her very emotional and she develops the ability to cry at any given time.

#3. She knows that now everyone will pester her to get married

Beta ab tera number hai” is something she hears from every aunty, relative and even unknown people at the wedding but gets immune to it!

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#4. She is the one who fixes up parlour appointments for the bride/groom-to-be

Because she is their right hand man. She wants to make life easier for her sibling, and so takes care of all the beauty appointments along with getting some booked for herself too.

#5. She is in charge of all the dance practices

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Setting up a good choreographer, matching the schedules of everyone who is performing, fixing time slots for practices, which everyone can attend comfortably along with finalising the dancing tracks; she does it all!

#6. She wonders what life would be like after her sister moves out or brother’s wife comes home

She constantly feels the excitement of getting the entire room and her sister’s old closet all to herself or the thrill of not being bullied by her brother any more. But, at the same time there is also a sad feeling of not being able to spend as much time with them.

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#7. She loses her cool when everyone keeps telling her some or the other work

She already has so much work to do. And, to top it, everyone keeps giving her more tasks to do, which sometimes takes a toll on her temper.

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#8. She is the most excited for the shopping to begin

The wedding jewellery, the lehenga, the knick-knacks and of course, her own stuff; she is just counting days until the shopping spree begins.

#9. She is eager to receive a lot of gifts and goodies

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Being the younger sister, she not only gets gifts from her own parents, but her sister/brother’s in-laws and her to-be jiju or bhabhi pamper her to the core too.

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#10. She puts in all her hard work to organise the bachelorette night (if it’s her sissy who’s getting married, obviously)

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She wants her sister to have the time of her life before she gets married and is loaded with the responsibilities of her new home. She makes sure that her sis feels special and is pampered to the hilt, on her last day in her maiden home or maayka.

#11. She pours all her emotions into the wedding speech that she so lovingly prepares

A fairly western and new concept, it is becoming quite popular in Indian weddings too. And, the sisters of the bride and the groom get to give the most special speeches of all. So, certainly enough, she prepares it very lovingly.

#12. She keeps surfing the internet for new wedding planning

She wants everything to be top notch! Being the first wedding of the house, everything is new to her and so she wants to get all information about the vendors, the designers, the photographers, everything.

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#13. She becomes a pro at crisis management

Things always go wrong at weddings! But, to keep the mood light and everything under control, she expertly tries to manage everything and also finds ways out of the problems that occur.

#14. She is very careful in putting together a killer and gorgeous wardrobe for herself

After all, it is her sibling’s wedding, the most important person in her life; how can she not look like a diva herself on this special occasion?

#15. She has plans to relax after the wedding is over

Post the hard work she has put into planning this perfect wedding, she just dreams of taking a break after all the hectic planning, scheduling, and running hither thither, is over. She makes plans in her head to get a lot of sleep, visit friends maybe and just chill for a while. Well, it’s a totally deserved break, isn’t it?

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If your situation happens to be the same, we are sure you were able to relate to each of these situations and thoughts. And, if you have your own unique experiences to share, feel free to tell us about them in the comments below!

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