What We Say And What We Mean: 7 Things Women Say To Men Whether They Are True Or Not

By Rashmi Walia Last Updated: Jul 3, 2015 | 03:34:25 IST

Relationships might not always be complicated, Well, read: not always! At times, relationships can get complicated, if we women try to govern them in our 'own' way. Everything said in a relationship is not always a lie, at least for a woman, especially if she is the one saying it. Because, whatever she says can have multiple meanings. If you are a man, you must always 'read between the lines'.

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So, here are a few things that women tell men, no matter if they are true or not. And yes, everytime they mean something different than what they say. So, let us take a quick look at seven things women often say to their men irrespective of it being true or not.

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#1. Just five more minutes

Whether we tell him we need 'just five minutes' to get ready, or plead him to talk for ‘just five minutes more’, our man needs to understand just five minutes does not really mean “just five minutes”. Pssst! It is just a phrase we use to procrastinate, or to take our own sweet time to keep him waiting forever.

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#2. You are hundred times better than HIM! You are simply the best!

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Men introduce us to their male friends, and then judge us by the way we talk about them later, right? They also bring up our exs, and obsess over how he behaved in public or how he performed in bed. Well, we are smarter here. That is why; we tell our guys exactly what they want to hear. And, that is- "you are simply the best, jaanu!"

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#3. Your friend is funny

Sometimes, it may happen so that our man’s best friend (Read: the attractive one) may be capable of attracting all our attention at once. After all, he spends most of his time with our guy. If by any chance, we do not like this 'bff', the case is anyways dismissed. But, if he is hot and attractive, we would prefer to settle at a more harmless adjective like 'he is just funny', to avoid any kind of jealousy and insecurities in our relationship.

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#4. Do not get into all that

Do you seriously consider not getting into it, if we just say so? Like seriously! Whether it is a fight with a colleague or problems at home- you have to jump in to save the day. No matter how much we say ‘do not get into all that’ and ‘you do not have to’, you are still expected to do the total opposite. And by now, you should know when to surprise us and when to just listen to us!

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#5. Make a choice

Oh boy! And you thought you really can? Be it a movie (or a TV channel), food or anything else for that matter, making a choice for us is yet another ‘make-us-feel-good’ game for you to play. And do remember, we expect you to choose what we would have chosen for ourselves anyways.

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#6. I am FINE!

Very often, men tell us not to say ‘I am fine’ when we really are not fine. But sorry, we cannot help it. Every time We say ‘I am fine’, we are not exactly fine. If we are not willing to have a discussion on why we are not fine, we simply expect you to figure it out on your own. It could be anything. Maybe you kept us waiting, or we are craving for something badly, or we had a fight with our friends, or anything else!

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#7. Oh, isn't she beautiful?

Psst! Don’t you understand what it means when we praise other girls around us? You either have to say we are more beautiful, or find flaws in her. We often praise other females to see your reaction. So, be careful with your response because our relationship is hanging on it!

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Well, after reading this article, two things are surely going to happen. Either you are going to understand what exactly your woman means when she says such things. Or, you continue living in the ignorant bliss and none would be the wiser. So, be smart, play safe and whenever your girl says any of the above things, ‘do not get into that’!

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