10 Feelings You Will Relate To If Your Bestie Is Leaving You And Going To A New City After Marriage

By Sharanya Manola Last Updated: Jun 3, 2016 | 12:12:57 IST

So, your best friend forever is ready to tie the knot with the love of her life. Everything is perfect, everyone is happy, and suddenly the realisation dawns on you; she is going to go to a new house, maybe even a new city, or worse, a new country! What do you do then? Honestly, there is nothing much you can do about it except being happy for her, and hoping you stay in touch always.

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While you are definitely excited and cannot wait to organise a hen’s party and go shopping with her, you are simultaneously experiencing a range of emotions because she is going to move away. Here are some of the things you will connect to if your BFF is moving away after her wedding.

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#1. You are super-duper excited, but super-duper sad

The very first emotion you feel is excitement and happiness. But then, you also feel sad because she is not going to be by your side 24x7, and that thought is unnerving to say the least.

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#2. The ‘tu mujhe bhool toh nahi jayegi?’ stage

Your relationship with your bestie will definitely go through some changes once she is married, but do not worry. You will always have each other. Just make sure that both of you take time out of your schedules, and stay connected. Like all other relationships, distance only makes the heart grow fonder!

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#3. Setting up virtual coffee ‘gup-shup’ sessions

No matter what time of the day it is, you plan to coordinate your clocks, and sip on your coffee or chai while talking about all that is happening in your life. The only difference is that you will be on the phone and not sprawled on the sofa like before.

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#4. No more night stays!

Now, we know this is the saddest part; no more night stays and all-night gossip and makeup sessions. Although that is going to end, you should not be sad because your best buddy is going to start her new life. Remember, you are going to get married someday too!

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#5. Making plans to visit each other after the marriage

Yes, the best part is that you will want to stay in touch in every way possible and not miss an opportunity to meet. Whether it is a business trip or a planned vacation, you will always take time out to be with your soul-sister, as often as possible.

#6. Going over and over some of the most memorable experiences and photographs

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Whenever you meet or talk over the phone, there will be an inevitable flashback of memories and you will be transported down the memory lane. Some memories will make you laugh, some will make you cry! But in the end, you will both do it together.

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#7. The ‘ab main shopping kis ke saath jaungi?’ trouble

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This one is another major concern. You will have to find yourself a new shopping partner now, who is going to be forever ready for your impromptu shopping plans! Or someone who’s honest and courageous enough to give you genuine fashion advice!

#8. ‘Who will be my agony aunt now?’

Boy, oh boy! You’re really going to miss her because whom will you run to if there’s a 3 a.m. advice you need? But hey, don’t worry! She will just be a phone, skype or facetime call away from you!

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#9. Oh no! No more late night parties!

She was the only person your parents trusted enough to let you go out with, especially for your wild parties! Now that she will be gone, no more all-nighters for you. Sad, but kya karein! You have to deal with this one all by yourself!

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#10. Saying ‘we will stay connected no-matter-what’ atleast 10 times a day

You got that right, girls. You will express your fear of losing your friend and reiterate the fact that you will stay in tune with each other’s lives because that is how it has always been. You and her, in this beautiful world!

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We understand that it’s going to be a little difficult for you to schedule your life after your soul sister relocates, but it's okay, life goes on. In fact, after she has moved away, both of you will share an even more special bond than before. So no worries!

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