14 Things You Worry About While Introducing Your Partner To Your Parents

By Namrata Arora Last Updated: Aug 6, 2015 | 22:26:18 IST

If you thought that finding the person you want to spend the rest of your life with was an accomplishment and your job ends right there, wait till you have to introduce your parents and your partner for the first time. There are a million worries, doubts and anxieties that cloud your mind and remain there until the meeting actually happens. It could go great or turn out to be a total disaster.

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So, here are the top most things you think about before setting up the formal meeting that most of the times turn out to be true!

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#1. Will your parents like what your partner is wearing

What if he comes wearing his loose and shabby trousers with an unkempt beard? What if she decides to wear her shortest dress today of all days?

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#2. That your mom/dad would start talking about marriage

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And, then explaining the important of the entire institution of marriage!

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#3. What if your partner answers back?

If they do not like something your parents said, how would your parents react to it?

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#4. What if your partner discloses a secret they were not supposed to know

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Like how you were not alone on your Goa trip, and many more of those ‘alone trips’ and were always accompanied by your love.

#5. Will your guy remember his table manners?

Or, eat with his mouth open, dropping food all over his clothes?

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#6. That your partner will call you baby or honey or worse in front of them

That is so personal! What if she/he forgets and calls you all that in front of your PARENTS?

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#7. What if your partner keeps them waiting on the first meeting

Now that is not a very good first impression to start with, is it? It would totally ruin the whole mood.

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#8. That your dad does not start talking about politics

Because then, it will be only politics that would be spoken about and the real aim of introducing the two will die a sad death!

#9. That your buas and massis do not show up there and then

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And start giving their inputs, unwanted if we may add, about how your partner looks, eats, walks and whatnot. Not to forget the torture they would do to your partner by asking silly questions.

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#10. That your parents will talk of how great you are and why you deserve better

Don’t all parents do that? But not today, please Lord! Just spare my partner all the pep talk focusing on me!

#11. That your partner will tell them the real story behind how you two met if they ask

The real story? Hell no! You now realise that you should have warned your partner beforehand and cooked up a fake story just in case.

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#12. That your siblings will make him nervous

And, that is what younger siblings are best at; grilling your partner in every possible way, making them uncomfortable and nervous either knowingly or otherwise.

#13. That your nosy neighbour does not come and stand at the door

To listen to all that is going on, making it public to the entire society within the next few hours!

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#14. Whether your parents will love your partner instantly?

Well, you do want that to happen eventually, but not that quickly! After all, how can they like him/her more than they like you, right?

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Well, whether you are anxious, scared, nervous or not, you have to introduce them some day if you two are really serious about your relationship. So, let all your worries fly off the window, and face the situation with a light and relaxed mood. Have faith and everything will work out just the way you planned it to be!

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